This doesn’t mean you have to be gorgeous (though, it helps). (Yes, this is the reason that everyone you see under 30 these days has their face constantly jammed into their phone, and has lost the ability to talk.) Any photo you use for your headshot has to work well at all sizes, so you look as alluring when smiling from the screen of a home PC as you do when gazing out of a tiny Apple Watch. Don’t choose a photo where you’re wearing sunglasses or a hat—they’re too concealing.
It just means that you can maximise your chances of getting attention online simply by choosing the best photos. Most online dating sites will require you to have a clear headshot to use as your main profile picture. And don’t choose a photo where you’re standing next to someone (we’ll get suspicious), or where you’ve savagely cropped somebody out (we’ll get even suspicious).
I combined this extensive research with the help of a number of my students who volunteered to help me produce this amazing e-book, in return that I would share with them the tools they needed for online dating success.
They applied FIRST nearly all the techniques and systems and tricks that other dating coaches, pick up artists and online dating experts had given them, and it came as no surprise to see ALL these methods FAIL.
She had calculated that, in the entire city of Philadelphia, only 35 men had all the qualities she was look for and was still single.