Free sex web cam rooms - Dating a borderline personality disorder
It's even harder when you're in your 20s and have a serious and potentially unstable mental illness.Perfecting the art of Tinder small talk, speaking to and texting a potential date, surviving the actual date and then dealing with the inevitable “ghosting” that seems to happen more often than not these days — not to mention the whirlwind of emotions you experience when you do actually snare someone — can be exhausting for anyone, to say the least.
(Please bear in mind that I have no close friends and even find it hard chatting to my parents on the phone! Now I've had time to think about this I realize I am happy on my own (or am I? Three women have viewed my profile and I've looked at theirs and suddenly on the one hand I am imagining perfect romantic walks and long term relationships and on the other I am picking fault with their profiles and can't stand them!! And you feel those little pangs of pain when you see the happy couples kissing and holding hands, thinking I want that too.
Part of me also seeks the attention and thrill even though I have no intention of ever meeting up with them because I have no confidence. But then a little while later, you realize that you are happier alone and have no tolerance for other people and their #######4.
If you don't know what borderline personality disorder (BDP) is, it's a mental illness that is characterized by unstable moods, behaviors and relationships.
While there are several characteristics, the two I'm going to narrow in on are the “frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment” and “a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships, characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.”You can see why dating when you have BPD can be a tad difficult.
Welcome to the world of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD).